Low self esteem can ruin your life. The way you think about yourself determines your feelings and how you interact with others.
But how do you know if you have low self esteem? If you agree with the following statements then you likely have low self esteem and seriously need to improve the way you think about yourself.
- Everything you do seems to go wrong.
- You think you are unattractive.
- You think other people do not like you.
- You are afraid to talk to people because you think you will say the wrong thing.
- When you make a decision it usually turns out to be the wrong one.
- You feel constantly frustrated.
There is resistance from your Super-Ego who memorized all the rules of your family and culture. If you become a universal master of the Law of Attraction, you won’t have any need for the rules that keep you in your Ego, in the illusion of the time/space continuum.
This has huge implications if you’re a person who knows you have to be an entrepreneur so you can follow your passion(s) as this relates to the services or products (solutions) you feel compelled to share with others (but apply this to any area of your life). How might this impact you?
You may withhold rewards from yourself-because you’re running a program that says being different deserves a penalty.
Consider this: if you’re non-mainstream and have experienced less-than-ideal rewards or fulfillment while “playing” in mainstream land . . .
1) It needed to be this way so you could discover you’re better suited to a different stream, one that allows you to be yourself-or you need to create a way to merge the two.
2) You may have been penalized because you didn’t fit the mainstream model. This could include comments from anyone that states disapproval of you because you aren’t making a “real effort” to fit the model someone wants you to fit. (Some of those people who disapproved are actually non-mainstreamers too afraid to leave that stream-sort of a “misery loves company” affect.)
Your Ego isn’t over-riding your feelings and your Super-Ego isn’t telling you that you are bad or lax for even thinking those thoughts. When we come into this world, our Ego and Super-Ego is yet to be developed. We are clear. Our Ego appears at about seven years of age and our Super-Ego starts to gain a foothold at about that age. The odds are then 2/1 against your identifying with your spirit. The odds are 2/1 against your choosing to live your life in joy rather than duty.
In the second map of who we are, you start out largely Unconscious. The baby sleeps more of the time, dreaming in Theta of comfort and bliss. This is where we came from, so what else does a baby have to dream about? The baby’s spirit starts out strong, and their Conscious identity is confused.
At first, the baby remembers being part of the One, and believes that Mom and Dad are connected as well. Oh, my. The child development specialists call this period the “blissful state of oceanic connectedness.” Isn’t that great!
And, then, experiences of separation begin to take hold. This is why we were fractured from the One — so that we could have experiences of our-selves. The Subconscious builds a “corrected” mind-map and the Conscious mind begins to gain strength. This Conscious mind is the Ego. “I think, therefore I am.”
Many of us let go of the memory that the way to the One is through the old Subconscious to the Super Conscious Higher Mind that is still directly connected to the One. Yet, the way is always there and the Subconscious doesn’t forget anything.
Law of Attraction: I match my vibrations to my ideal expression of self in every area of my life, and attract ideal people, events, and resources into my life.
Quantum: I’m an infinite being (creative consciousness) having a human experience, which means I decided to see what it’s like to feel the opposite-limited-until I decide to wake from this lucid dream and play differently. To do this, I created a playground with play mates who read the lines I gave/give them. I create(d) everything in this lucid dream I chose/choose to make sure I have this experience. I understand the true power is not in the scenery, not in the actors, not in the words, not in any material thing-not in the dream-but comes from me. I install the patterns into the quantum field, and I can appreciate what a brilliant job I did/do of making it feel real. As it feels appropriate, I reclaim energy from patterns I created, as they get my attention, and play differently.
The crux of this is, it’s more than likely your life experience isn’t what you desire if you’re punishing yourself (withholding rewards: approval, appreciation, monetary, success, etc.) for being You.
Next time you aim at a target or goal and start to create the strategies and action steps to achieve or attain an outcome, check in with yourself to see if you’re ready to receive the desired outcome or if a belief that you don’t deserve it is rumbling around at a deep level. Use the approach, out of the three offered above, that resonates most for you to move this forward
Resource Author Francisco Rodriguez H.
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