Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Life Coach , writes… …
Maybe you have heard of the ‘Bucket of Crab’ mindset. I’m talking about the kind of mindset that believes, “if I can’t have something, neither can you.” It’s a form of invalidating someone else’s happiness by dragging them down to their inadequacy. It often is expressed by a colleague or family member who doesn’t like or does not want you reaching for a higher goal or going beyond what’s usually the norm for a culture. Everyone’s been there.
It’s the same with tribal mindset. The tribe is meant to help each other and keep the culture in a sustained state of relative safety. Every person has an explicitly delineated and very important role and function. If you wanted to go beyond (as is our very nature) you literally risked the safety of the tribe. You are taught: “I cannot go beyond what the tribe teaches, otherwise I’d be ostracised and experience certain death”. You would be exiled and not given food or water and no other tribe for hundreds of miles.
However, you were designed to create. Your very nature is to go beyond, express, want, and manifest. Then reach for another fun thing or dream to fulfill. I have read that before a child reaches five years old, they have heard the word ‘No’ over 60,000 times! It seems that our nature and our culture are conflicted with each other.
It’s no wonder conflicting beliefs, critiquing inner dialogue and fear of success bring us down from time to time. It has been battered into our subconscious. The psychological phenomena is called cognitive dissonance. It is like interference from your head when you have many conflicting ideas at the same time. This dissonance gets uncomfortable and wants a solution. It gets solved in one of two methods. Either by returning to old, known patterns, or by allowing yourself to let go of the old to reach for a better place mentally. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you completely change your outlook with expert life coaching.
It’s no wonder with the programs we’ve adopted that it can feel so hard to create any effective change. The truth is, it is not your fault. Don’t blame yourself and heap more negativity on yourself. You are not to blame. Law of Attraction Relationships are incredibly rewarding and fulfilling past your most wonderful fantasies! Think of a partner who is everything you have ever wanted in a partner.
It is not your fault, but it is your responsibility to take your power back. You’ve always had the ability to decide who you are and command that. Your mind is attractive. And even more powerfully, your thoughts coupled with emotion are creative and attractive. Glare the limiting programs in the face and confidently choose another possibility for yourself. You are meant to thrive and create. You have the confirmation by the Universe. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful with the discovery of the Law of Attraction.
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